success?

I’ve been asked by MR fendy (again) to deliver something about attitude…and I was begin to worry. I do not want anything like last week.

Last week, I told about a story of a girl who want to bake a cake but she didn’t know how to. Mr Fendy asked, why must bake, not just buy it? Then I said she want to feel the taste of her own cake with she who decided the quantity of the ingredient. (Actually my answer was not good as this, because of the nervous).With buying it only, she cannot feel the moment. Of course, there are a lot of recipes that she tried but most of the times, it failed. Some less sugar, some less baking powder, some less butter. Then Mr Fendi asked, how did she felt for this? Of course she felt sad, like what you have done is failed. (but the way I answer is the worst I think). And Mr fendi asked, so what is relation between this girl and success?

The girl trying is like us in real world, always trying to get what we aimed for. Yeah, life needs us to have aim. Like ir fuaad sabki said if we do not know where to go, we do not know when to get there. But we found failures frequently. That is normal for real life. The girl shows me that we must not give up for achieve success in whatever we do. How? We must choose the right decision. Like the girl, she tried to choose the right recipe for the taste that she want. And she must decide the amount of each ingredient. But, the right decision could be done after several failures. That is the way we learn from mistakes. No pain, no gain. Besides, how would she know that the cake is less this and that. She asked her mom, family, friends about it. Same as in the real life, how did we know the positive and negative about what we done, of course from critics from other people. Critics are good for improvement. This also shows that the way to success is not conquer by us only. It considers other people too. The help and opinion from other make us do better.

I also said that the success people are someone who made wise decision in life. How to make wise decision? It requires analysis the good and bad based on knowledge and experience. That is why they said knowledge is power. I remember cikgu mohd nor (my silat teacher) said we must become good listener and good observer, then only we can become good learner. The one who is good learner can make wise decision. In conclusion, success needs knowledge by the help from other with facing of failure to failure and with determination to not give up.(if only I can speak like this in public..so relief).