success??

as usual..friday 8am..i feel very exited to hear from other about success
these are what I got:
1) Be HONEST.dont tell a lie
2) What u get, give to others
3) HAVING A DEGREE DOESNT MEAN someone IS KNOWLEDGABLE, BEING KNOWLEDGABLE DOESNT MEAN someone HAS A DEGREE
4)LEARN ABOUT ETIQUE
5)NO ONE FAILED TO PLAN, BESIDES THEY PLAN TO FAIL
6)SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND, THEN TO BE UNDERSTOOD
7)LISTEN, DONT JUST HEAR

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Hadis Nabi Muhammad s.a.w "...If anyone fulfills his brother's needs, Allah will fulfill his needs; if one relieves a Muslim of his troubles, Allah will relieve his troubles on the Day of Resurrection.. (Al-BUkhari dan Muslim)

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Never interrupt a talk, though you know it inside out (Al-Khatib Al- Baghdadi)

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Hadis Nabi Muhammad s.a.w"Leave that which makes you doubt for that which does not make you doubt, for truthfulness is certainty and tranquility, whilst lying is doubt and confussion." (Al-Tarmidhi, Al-Nisaa'i and Ibn Hibban)

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But...I am confuse. Most of them who presented use this phrase.."Most people who got many A's in SPM or STPM think that they are success. But for me, it is not success." Then I asked inside, so Is the many A's is to show the failure?? Confuse..confuse.. Then, some says who got many A's are just want to show up and to be respected by other. I asked quietly, "what if I work hard not because an A but end up getting one? " Am I a failure people?

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This is why i dont like people to know my result.How I hate this situation. People always said the many A's student just do the study, not enjoy the life. The many A's students do not know how to apply the knowledge in future. The many A's student cannot say 'they dont know', it is like a shame for us. Because other people around us expect the many A's student know everything in and out. I am really stress when facing these moment. Other people says 'How I cannot get result like u?' and it make me sick. Dont see the success by the result, please. If I got good result does not mean I am really bombastic fantastic human being.

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Actually, I really do what I love and love what I do. Not just study with saying 'I must get A's' everytime. They dont know how i TRY to understand what I should understand. And if it turned out that I got A's, is it wrong for me? Then, what is the proper way to study? target a B?? So confusela..